
Friday Apr 18, 2025
EP 210.5: STOP Doing These 10 Things if You Feel Stuck & Chained to Disordered Patterns ~ Part 2
If you're feeling stuck in your recovery journey, Episode 210.5, shares the top hidden barriers that might be keeping you chained to eating disorder patterns - and how to break free once and for all.
IN THIS EPISODE
Things to Stop Doing:
Stop Assuming You Always Know What's Best
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- Eating disorders thrive on the illusion of expertise
- "I know what's best" is often the disorder speaking, not your wisdom
- Recovery requires challenging your own assumptions
- Professional guidance provides perspective you can't see from within
Stop Believing the Lie That You Aren't Doing Enough to Recover
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- Recovery isn't about doing more; it's about being more
- "Never enough" mentality leads to recovery perfectionism
- The essential ingredient isn't more tasks—it's self-compassion
- Ask: "How can I bring more compassion to this moment?"
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Stop Avoiding Discomfort
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- The only way out is through
- Eating disorders themselves are systems for avoiding discomfort
- Recovery requires moving toward discomfort, not away from it
- Each time you face discomfort, you build resilience
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Stop Thinking the Worst Possible Scenario Is Gaining Weight
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- The real worst-case scenario is never experiencing freedom
- As long as weight gain remains your greatest fear, the disorder retains power
- Recovery may include body changes, but they aren't the catastrophe predicted
- There is no wrong choice in recovery—only refusing to make a choice
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ACTION STEPS
- Identify which of these 10 patterns is most holding you back
- Choose one pattern to focus on disrupting this week
- Practice moving toward discomfort rather than away from it
- Revisit your recovery priorities and realign your energy accordingly
- Consider whether professional support could help you break these patterns
Remember, you are NOT your eating disorder and you are worthy of a life that is FREE from it.
xo,
lindsey
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* While I am a certified health coach, anorexia survivor & eating disorder recovery coach, I do not intend the use of this message to serve as medical advice. Please refer to the disclaimer here in the show & be sure to contact a licensed clinical provider if you are struggling with an eating disorder.
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